STRESS, FRUITS, VEGETABLES & A LITTLE COMPASSION

Several months ago I stopped at Publix on my way home from work. Not one of those super Publix stores — just the little one on Monza in the Gables. It had been a long day and I needed a bunch of stuff for dinner. That landed me in the produce section. I noticed one of the employees there — a middle aged guy I’d seen for years and years — making sure the pineapples were standing straight, carefully pulling stray Granny Smith’s out of the Red Delicious bin, getting all the cucumbers facing the same way. To me it seemed like mindless, mundane stuff. But the guy was methodical and steady in his work.

I heard him strike up a conversation with another shopper. She must have asked how he was doing because he shook his head and said he was fine, but work was really stressful. Huh? Rearranging apples stressful??? You’ve gotta be kidding!!

And then I realized he wasn’t kidding at all. He took his job seriously and felt the pressure to get it done right. He taught me a great lesson that day. I dismissed the produce man’s feelings because I thought his job was too easy to stress anyone out. I was wrong. I had no right to judge that way. Nobody does.

We all have our jobs here at EWM. Hopefully, we care about what we do and about doing it well. So whether we answer phones, produce ads, sell homes, manage offices or direct the entire company, the potential for stress is always there. Thinking of stress as our common denominator gives me an added measure of respect and compassion for the individual members of our EWM family. On especially good days, that can lead to kindness, a helpful attitude, and a general sense of well being.

Not bad for a day’s work!

5 comments on “STRESS, FRUITS, VEGETABLES & A LITTLE COMPASSION”

  1. Irene Cespedes Reply

    No more chocolate, please!

    Now all I’m waiting on is my dart board. Once I get that I’ll be ready to move. =)

    Susie, at least you realized you had no right to judge. Things aren’t always as “easy” as they seem.

  2. Lourdes Rodriguez Diaz Reply

    I agree with no more chocolate pleas … unless its low calorie or 100 calorie snack pack!!! Some of us are counting calories, taking up 8 minute abs, wearing pony tail extensions and of course acquiring a new name: Chongalicious! Underwraps… a selected co-worker has given me that name…HeHeHeHe! Could she be a Chonga hater?

  3. Debra Spadafora Reply

    We all have a tendency to make snap judgements and that isn’t fair. Who knows, maybe someone was just having a bad day….and by the way, chocolate is the food of choice for Pinecrest too anytime of the day or night!

  4. Paula Barrera Reply

    It’s so true. Sometimes when I talk to my family about my stress, they say, “Think of all the people out there with bigger problems” or “Think how many people in Africa are starving”.

    It’s true that we are in a much better situation than most of the world, but ANYONES problems are THEIR problems.

    No one’s comfort zone is the same, and I am sure if I were a cashier or store clerk – I would be stressing over completely different things. I think even a toddler can feel stressed out.

    I really liked the way you described your experience. You had a really good insightful moment. I love those – they are so rare.

    For me at least – haha!

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